Meet Ashley

Let's relight your spark

Hello! I’m Ashley and I’m so glad you are here.

I’m a passionate advocate for relationships as they are the vessel that hold our sacred flames.

The very flames that light the fire of desire. For ourselves, each other, and the world.

Consider me your flame starter and fire keeper.

For more than a decade as a psychotherapist and as a coach, I’ve seen first hand the benefits of secure relationships. Emotional attachment is foundational to individuals feeling secure within themselves. When you and your partner feel safe together, you can open up to be truly confident and knowing you're something to be desired. When you feel desired, anything is possible. Not only for your relationship but for our beautiful and sacred world.

My experience in depth psychology and Emotionally Focused Therapy make me uniquely qualified to help you reignite your sacred flame.

Through the psychodynamic lens, I tend to Psyche (the Greek word for soul), who is in constant pursuit of wholeness, or as one might say, Eros, another word for desire. It’s through this courtship that I help clients come to see the bright light they have to offer, their attachment to one another holding their flames.

I pull on my more than 50 hours of supervised experience and training in the Emotionally Focused Therapy model as well as my education at Pacifica Graduate Institute, from which I received a master’s in Depth Psychology with an emphasis in Clinical Psychology, to help you tend to yours.

I also have extensive training with Sheryl Lisa Finn of Conscious Transitions in how to address relationship anxiety (also referred to R-OCD), and have been a frequent co-moderator for her online support forums connected to courses on relationships.

Not just a coach, I’ve been a client, too. I know the joys, pleasures, and passion that can return to one’s relationship. Clients have said I am deeply engaged and will love you fiercely. There is no other way I know how to do this work.

I can’t wait to work you!

Chat with me

I offer clients free 30-min Zoom consultations to see if we can work together